The Natural Order of Things

As it pertains to the role of gender and the proper social positions that women and men have in society, it is taken that the natural order of things is to have women the placid genteel creature; a thing of beauty it has then always been a vulgar thing to even imagine a woman that would disturb her station in life to become something beyond a portrait to be admired.  

A lady does not court a gentleman, a lady is courted by gentlemen. With that said it is preposterous for the question to be asked and more so to be answered if men want women to pursue them. As we are dealing with things that pertain to nature let us use the metaphor of the tiger and the deer. 

The tiger chases the deer, this is the natural order. What would the tiger think if one day in a forest he meet an overly aggressive onyx waiting for him leaning against a tree, lotioning herself with A1Steak sauce and forcing open the tiger's jowls and rubbing her meaty flanks across his incisors sensually?

Wouldn't the tiger begin to question the moral integrity of the deer? Maybe the deer isn't as innocent as he thought and although he hadn't expected to be the first feline to nibble on her hind quarters, the tiger begins to think that the deer is just a little comfortable with carnivores. 

Does the tiger really want to get involved with the deer when it is quite possible that in  six years he is wondering why their half tiger/half deer child has a mane and she tries to convince him that her grandfather, who by the way was an elk, had a mane and that it skipped a couple generations?

(I'm just saying).